ooh. i suddenly remembered...i was going to comment on jiu cen gao...the show on channel 8 at 9pm on mondays to fridays. okay, i'm not a channel 8 fan, instead, i'd rather watch channel u shows over channel 8 shows any time...but that show is quite good:) keli and her husband don't know how to express their feelings, their care and concern for each other properly. that's what caused them to perpectually 'quarrel'...when instead, keli was nagging at her husband 'cos she cares about him and don't really want him to do manual hard work and suffer. then i was thinking, that's the situation with my mum as well. she constantly nags and scolds and watever whenever we stay out too late and didn't call to inform her or something 'cos she cares about us and worries if we are alright. it's just that the way she chooses to show it may cause rebellion and irritation from us occasionally, especially when we've been really tired and stressed out and something similar. which is kinda sad. because it'll probably lead to an argument or something, and a cold war.
therefore i conclude that it's very important to know the right way to get your message across. and an occasional surprised showering of affection and care won't hurt anyone:) and sometimes, it's much better to be the one who's showering others with these instead of being the person who receives it:) and even if one doesn't receive it from others, one shouldn't get too disappointed..'cos everyone else has got their own agenda, and as long as you know that your little compassion will one day be realised, or warm their hearts, it's actually more than enough:)
that statement of 'i'm happy when my friends are happy:)'