i hate it when something unjust is said towards me, or something unfair about me is said about me when the person doesn't understand the whole long history behind something that's been done.
but i guess sometimes we just have to learn to adopt the words of Jesus in saying
'forgive them Father, for they do not know what they are doing."
and surely there have been also times when others allow us that benefit of the doubt and forgive us out of grace.
it still irks me though.