saw this link on leanne's blog...
A blog about the death of a precious child
it's a blog done up by a couple who's recently sent another child to be with the Lord. I do agree, somehow their continual trust in God and understanding that God didn't make Ashley as an accident touched me.. and when you see the pictures, you start to share a bit in the pain that they experience as they send yet another beloved child of theirs off to another world. having the knowledge that the other world is a much better one, and having the intermixed feelings of joy and great grief as they've lost someone dear to them.
i don't know exactly how they feel, but as i read the blog, what came over me is a bitter grief that welled up into uncontrollable sobs... and then the beginning of a small resolution and hope as the understanding that they'll see their children again for a longer time yet in the future - in heaven.