tracy has very nicely added some PROFOUND questions for me to ponder..hahaha
something about responsibility. do you think it is a person's responsibility to 'contact everybody to reduce this missing of theirs'? or, in general, do you think it is a person's responsibility to placate everyone who loves you and might get jealous/feel neglected/hurt when you don't happen to spend time enough with them according to that other person(s)?
and how much is it your responsibility?
it wld be easy to say it's all her responsibility of course. but let's say she doesn't even want to talk to me. would it be her responsibility just because i want her to?
but what if you have, say a married couple. and the wife is very open and friendly or something, and inadvertantly hurts her husband. is it her responsibility then to do something about it so that he doesn't feel hurt? or shd he just 'not be so conservative'?

what do you think?
i believe in accurate terms, one should really call everyone up to reciprocate their love and fondness of you... in comfortable terms:) let's just say if i like fungi... and i keep insisting that she calls me, i'll be possessive, and that'll be MY fauLt:) if she doesn't feel like talking, it's her own choice, we've gotta respect her for that:) privacy remember? *grInz*:)
as for the married couple thinGie... i feel that the wife should spend some private and quality time with her husband you know:) it's to keep the romance continuous in their life as wellz:) commitment is important in relationships:) that is... as long as the husband is not TOO demanding...oh welLz.. u noe this kinda stuff rightz, it takes two to tango:)