lol.
my friend put up an interesting nick on facebook with regards to how if you can't treat children with love and care, don't have kids. use a condom.
my sup has her personal value of how if as a couple, you're not going to be committed to working out problems, and decide to run away instead, don't get married.
'cos that's how most marriages end.
and you don't have to be a counsellor for long, or even be a teacher or a social worker or youth worker for long, before you realize that in Singapore, marriage dissolution IS very common :S
nowadays while making phone calls to parents, i get quite cautious about asking about the other parent. lol