Was bathing, and praying, and was reminded that
it sometimes really doesn't matter what the person chooses to do?
God is concerned about my reaction to the whole thing.
He's also concerned about the other person as well.. but tt's for the other person to bear the responsibility of.
my responsibility lies in how i respond to the situation.
will i neglect the person as well? just to pay back? in a sense?
or will i choose to , knowing tt i can take the step to encourage and connect, encourage and connect the person to me?
it actually doesn't matter abt the role difference as well?
'cos each will have their own responsibility to bear :)

such a fundamental thing.
forgotten so easily. haha