ENFJ Conflict Reactions Personality Traits:

* ENFJ will likely feel very surprised and misunderstood in conflict
* ENFJ is very likely to take the conflict personally
* ENFJ will become depressed as a result of the early conflict
* ENFJ will usually take the most harmonious approach to finding the solution
* ENFJ is prone to ignore the conflict until a value(s) is violated
* ENFJ typically will prefer to maintain the relationship rather than sacrifice relationship due to conflict
* ENFJ likely see conflict resolution activity as a door to improvement

ENFJ Conflict Resolution Activity Personality Traits

* ENFJ will naturally consider a people centered solution first
* ENFJ will rather quickly find a common ground and work toward a harmonious solution
* ENFJ will avoid criticizing almost at all costs
* ENFJ will typically look for harmonious solutions to the conflict
* ENFJ will focus on what each individual wants to take place
* The ENFJ will encourage everyone to contribute
* ENFJ will seek creative solutions

ENFJ Likely Positive Solutions Will Be

* Agreeable, friendly, cordial, harmonious
* Helpful, useful, positive, beneficial to people
* Well organized, competent, capable
* Perceptive, shrewd, discerning, insightful
* Arrived at through consensus
* Win-win in focus

ENFJ Conflict Resolution Activity-Improvement Opportunities (weaknesses)

* ENFJ will typically take everything personally
* ENFJ will not see debate as objective problem solving and not easily understand how others do not
* ENFJ may not see or seek all the possible facts and details
* ENFJ may overlook, disregard, write off solutions that seem non-people-oriented
* ENFJs are likely to ask questions when they are really wanting to make a statement
* ENFJ are prone to indirectness and thus appear to be manipulative
* ENFJ struggle if they cannot discuss things calmly and without strife
* ENFJs will have difficulty with those who openly blame and criticize
* ENFJs may decide too quickly, then regret it later
* ENFJ may overlook the obvious logic of a situation as clues to what is causing the problem
* ENFJ may later regret deciding so quickly, but the drive is there to remove the pain
* ENJF may exaggerate the effect of their hurt feelings and others