i googled enfjs and intense on google, and came to this forum.. here are some of the answers in the forum with regards to whether enfjs are intense:
"Like... I feel like I connect with people on such a deep or personal level so quickly but they never connect with me.
I don't think it's about being intense, cause intense would be strong and extreme. It could be that you and ENFJs in general are very open people who can have deep connections with people quickly and easily. Not everyone is like that, some need time to open up. I don't fall in your example. I am friendly and people consider me open but actually I'm not. I'm just way too friendly and caring, and people confuse it with being open.
With me its just... like after five minutes I'm in love with the person and I'm convinced that we'll be friends forever and then the next time they see me they don't hardly remember anything about our interaction except my name and I talked a lot but I remember everything that they said because I was so intense in the conversation"
lol....
i can identify man.
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
gets frustrated when:
1) people try to talk to her early in the morning when she just woke up
2) she can't get peace and quiet in her house at 11.54pm at night (tvs should be banned after 10pm, especially drama drama taiwan drama :P).
3) her cat keeps jumping onto the table and sleeping on the lappie
4) the room becomes very messy
5) things are not communicated clearly
6) people respond slowly, or decide slowly. or keeps changing their minds after a decision is made.
7) she meets with selfish people who are more concerned about themselves and neglect the impact their decisions have on other people
1) people try to talk to her early in the morning when she just woke up
2) she can't get peace and quiet in her house at 11.54pm at night (tvs should be banned after 10pm, especially drama drama taiwan drama :P).
3) her cat keeps jumping onto the table and sleeping on the lappie
4) the room becomes very messy
5) things are not communicated clearly
6) people respond slowly, or decide slowly. or keeps changing their minds after a decision is made.
7) she meets with selfish people who are more concerned about themselves and neglect the impact their decisions have on other people
Sunday, April 17, 2011
Sunday, April 10, 2011
some time ago, i did some running :)
haha. and that was the route i ran!
am thinking tt i need to delight in diligence.
so that shall be what i wanna focus on in the month of April.
to delight in diligence :)
the troublesome part about being of a sanguine temperament is that i do things better when someone else is doing it with me. wahah.
Friday, April 01, 2011
:) realized that different leaders really have different styles. haha.
like a choleric one will speak up for your cause and take up the lead, but a sang phleg one will be the one by your side slowly teaching u to do things and guide you along, even helping you do some stuff. haha.
it would be good to have someone with both traits. hahahaha. lead, speak up for u, and guide you along by doing things along by your side as well. hahaha.
appreciated the choleric one in the front part when i was settling admin stuff and pushing for my programmes to be run, but now i appreciate the help the sang phleg leader really gave me last yr while i was working with him.
like a choleric one will speak up for your cause and take up the lead, but a sang phleg one will be the one by your side slowly teaching u to do things and guide you along, even helping you do some stuff. haha.
it would be good to have someone with both traits. hahahaha. lead, speak up for u, and guide you along by doing things along by your side as well. hahaha.
appreciated the choleric one in the front part when i was settling admin stuff and pushing for my programmes to be run, but now i appreciate the help the sang phleg leader really gave me last yr while i was working with him.
Thursday, March 31, 2011
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Monday, March 28, 2011
I don't often give thanks for my work, or for my work environment.
but today while I was reading the selfcare article that we have to read for the supervision session tmr, I can't help but thank God for how things are turning out nowadays :)
thanking God for my school's DM, who became my other reporting officer this year. he's someone who's down to earth, and will speak up for the counsellors in front of the principal. not the kind of person i will usually click naturally with, but i appreciate his leadership through the times.
i thank God also that i'm given lots of space and backing up to do the programmes I want to do. i like it when i hear 'don't worry about that's from the people i work with because i know they would handle that aspect, and i just have to do my part of it.
i also enjoy the fact that students are now coming in more often just to say a hi and to share their day. though that does take up a bit of time, i think it fills my emotional tank in a humanly way :)
this is monday. by the time friday comes, the toxins would have gathered up again, and detox would need to be done. haha. but for now, i thank God for the people around me :)
but today while I was reading the selfcare article that we have to read for the supervision session tmr, I can't help but thank God for how things are turning out nowadays :)
thanking God for my school's DM, who became my other reporting officer this year. he's someone who's down to earth, and will speak up for the counsellors in front of the principal. not the kind of person i will usually click naturally with, but i appreciate his leadership through the times.
i thank God also that i'm given lots of space and backing up to do the programmes I want to do. i like it when i hear 'don't worry about that's from the people i work with because i know they would handle that aspect, and i just have to do my part of it.
i also enjoy the fact that students are now coming in more often just to say a hi and to share their day. though that does take up a bit of time, i think it fills my emotional tank in a humanly way :)
this is monday. by the time friday comes, the toxins would have gathered up again, and detox would need to be done. haha. but for now, i thank God for the people around me :)
Bought 'Gone case' (a graphic novel) from Times today. didn't know what it was about but was curious to see how it would be like since one seldom sees graphic novels from Singapore.
you can read this for a review :)
you can read this for a review :)
Monday, March 21, 2011
Isaiah 56
Salvation for Others
1 This is what the LORD says:
“Maintain justice
and do what is right,
for my salvation is close at hand
and my righteousness will soon be revealed.
2 Blessed is the one who does this—
the person who holds it fast,
who keeps the Sabbath without desecrating it,
and keeps their hands from doing any evil.”
3 Let no foreigner who is bound to the LORD say,
“The LORD will surely exclude me from his people.”
And let no eunuch complain,
“I am only a dry tree.”
4 For this is what the LORD says:
“To the eunuchs who keep my Sabbaths,
who choose what pleases me
and hold fast to my covenant—
5 to them I will give within my temple and its walls
a memorial and a name
better than sons and daughters;
I will give them an everlasting name
that will endure forever.
6 And foreigners who bind themselves to the LORD
to minister to him,
to love the name of the LORD,
and to be his servants,
all who keep the Sabbath without desecrating it
and who hold fast to my covenant—
7 these I will bring to my holy mountain
and give them joy in my house of prayer.
Their burnt offerings and sacrifices
will be accepted on my altar;
for my house will be called
a house of prayer for all nations.”
8 The Sovereign LORD declares—
he who gathers the exiles of Israel:
“I will gather still others to them
besides those already gathered.”
God’s Accusation Against the Wicked
9 Come, all you beasts of the field,
come and devour, all you beasts of the forest!
10 Israel’s watchmen are blind,
they all lack knowledge;
they are all mute dogs,
they cannot bark;
they lie around and dream,
they love to sleep.
11 They are dogs with mighty appetites;
they never have enough.
They are shepherds who lack understanding;
they all turn to their own way,
they seek their own gain.
12 “Come,” each one cries, “let me get wine!
Let us drink our fill of beer!
And tomorrow will be like today,
or even far better.”
Salvation for Others
1 This is what the LORD says:
“Maintain justice
and do what is right,
for my salvation is close at hand
and my righteousness will soon be revealed.
2 Blessed is the one who does this—
the person who holds it fast,
who keeps the Sabbath without desecrating it,
and keeps their hands from doing any evil.”
3 Let no foreigner who is bound to the LORD say,
“The LORD will surely exclude me from his people.”
And let no eunuch complain,
“I am only a dry tree.”
4 For this is what the LORD says:
“To the eunuchs who keep my Sabbaths,
who choose what pleases me
and hold fast to my covenant—
5 to them I will give within my temple and its walls
a memorial and a name
better than sons and daughters;
I will give them an everlasting name
that will endure forever.
6 And foreigners who bind themselves to the LORD
to minister to him,
to love the name of the LORD,
and to be his servants,
all who keep the Sabbath without desecrating it
and who hold fast to my covenant—
7 these I will bring to my holy mountain
and give them joy in my house of prayer.
Their burnt offerings and sacrifices
will be accepted on my altar;
for my house will be called
a house of prayer for all nations.”
8 The Sovereign LORD declares—
he who gathers the exiles of Israel:
“I will gather still others to them
besides those already gathered.”
God’s Accusation Against the Wicked
9 Come, all you beasts of the field,
come and devour, all you beasts of the forest!
10 Israel’s watchmen are blind,
they all lack knowledge;
they are all mute dogs,
they cannot bark;
they lie around and dream,
they love to sleep.
11 They are dogs with mighty appetites;
they never have enough.
They are shepherds who lack understanding;
they all turn to their own way,
they seek their own gain.
12 “Come,” each one cries, “let me get wine!
Let us drink our fill of beer!
And tomorrow will be like today,
or even far better.”