"ENFJs online are kind of like INFPs in real life. Not really but sorta. Here we feel comfortable. In the world INFPs don't feel comfortable. ENFJs feel relatively comfortable in the world.... but not so much online. There isn't enough stimuli for them.... at least the stimuli that sticks out to them. They have no facial expressions to work off of. Hardly any perceptions to make judgments on.... mostly just judgments on forums etc.

Plus they don't really need to express anything online when they can do it just fine in real life.

I made up a metaphor once.....

think of a baked potato. INFPs are your run of the mill baked potato. ENFJs are a baked potato inside out.

That means that INFPs have a guard up in real life..... and feelings (potato) are inside.

ENFJs show their feelings ..... but their guard is actually pretty strong... it's just hard to see since the feelings cover them up."

quoted from online.

lol. of course, there're also people who think they know us really well just because they know how we feel.