as i continually read up on the mbti personality testing types, i start to understand my needs a bit more as well. according to mbti, it is proposed that enfjs have Ni and Fe. meaning that they have internal intuition, and external feeling. which means that I subconsciously employ pattern recognition, while focusing externally on my environment (which probably explains why I become conscious of the dynamics in social relationships). haha.
and why some people irk me quite fast. it's like u can see weird motives very quickly.