i googled enfjs and intense on google, and came to this forum.. here are some of the answers in the forum with regards to whether enfjs are intense:
"Like... I feel like I connect with people on such a deep or personal level so quickly but they never connect with me.
I don't think it's about being intense, cause intense would be strong and extreme. It could be that you and ENFJs in general are very open people who can have deep connections with people quickly and easily. Not everyone is like that, some need time to open up. I don't fall in your example. I am friendly and people consider me open but actually I'm not. I'm just way too friendly and caring, and people confuse it with being open.
With me its just... like after five minutes I'm in love with the person and I'm convinced that we'll be friends forever and then the next time they see me they don't hardly remember anything about our interaction except my name and I talked a lot but I remember everything that they said because I was so intense in the conversation"
lol....
i can identify man.
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
gets frustrated when:
1) people try to talk to her early in the morning when she just woke up
2) she can't get peace and quiet in her house at 11.54pm at night (tvs should be banned after 10pm, especially drama drama taiwan drama :P).
3) her cat keeps jumping onto the table and sleeping on the lappie
4) the room becomes very messy
5) things are not communicated clearly
6) people respond slowly, or decide slowly. or keeps changing their minds after a decision is made.
7) she meets with selfish people who are more concerned about themselves and neglect the impact their decisions have on other people
1) people try to talk to her early in the morning when she just woke up
2) she can't get peace and quiet in her house at 11.54pm at night (tvs should be banned after 10pm, especially drama drama taiwan drama :P).
3) her cat keeps jumping onto the table and sleeping on the lappie
4) the room becomes very messy
5) things are not communicated clearly
6) people respond slowly, or decide slowly. or keeps changing their minds after a decision is made.
7) she meets with selfish people who are more concerned about themselves and neglect the impact their decisions have on other people
Sunday, April 17, 2011
Sunday, April 10, 2011
some time ago, i did some running :)
haha. and that was the route i ran!
am thinking tt i need to delight in diligence.
so that shall be what i wanna focus on in the month of April.
to delight in diligence :)
the troublesome part about being of a sanguine temperament is that i do things better when someone else is doing it with me. wahah.
Friday, April 01, 2011
:) realized that different leaders really have different styles. haha.
like a choleric one will speak up for your cause and take up the lead, but a sang phleg one will be the one by your side slowly teaching u to do things and guide you along, even helping you do some stuff. haha.
it would be good to have someone with both traits. hahahaha. lead, speak up for u, and guide you along by doing things along by your side as well. hahaha.
appreciated the choleric one in the front part when i was settling admin stuff and pushing for my programmes to be run, but now i appreciate the help the sang phleg leader really gave me last yr while i was working with him.
like a choleric one will speak up for your cause and take up the lead, but a sang phleg one will be the one by your side slowly teaching u to do things and guide you along, even helping you do some stuff. haha.
it would be good to have someone with both traits. hahahaha. lead, speak up for u, and guide you along by doing things along by your side as well. hahaha.
appreciated the choleric one in the front part when i was settling admin stuff and pushing for my programmes to be run, but now i appreciate the help the sang phleg leader really gave me last yr while i was working with him.